12/11/2026
This post is CRINGE and EMBARRASSING, but f**k it. I’m sharing this for motivational purposes.
For years, I struggled to find my place in this industry. There were even moments when I questioned whether I belonged here, especially when people made me feel like I didn’t.
Along the way, I started randomly DMing chefs and industry people for advice. No ego, no agenda. I genuinely just wanted guidance from people who had already walked the path I was trying to navigate.
Sunny Anderson was one of those people. Even though it took 10 years to hear back, she finally did, and honestly, it was worth the wait. 😩🥺
I used to tune into her shows on Food Network while trying to figure things out. So imagine my excitement when she reposted my post featuring Bobby Flay wearing an Osei Blackett hat. Then she reached out, remembered my old message and took the time to offer me advice. That meant a lot.
If there’s one thing I hope you take away from this, it’s NEVER GIVE UP ON YOURSELF.
Find your thing. Swallow your pride. Ask for help. Be willing to learn from others and, most importantly, STICK WITH IT.
You never know when a message you sent 10 years ago might finally get a response.
Keep going. Keep showing up. Eventually, you’ll find your tribe. ❤️
