08/30/2026
One Week After Lynn’s Hip Surgery — A Week of Progress, Love, and Gratitude ❤️🙏
Today is exactly one week since Lynn’s hip surgery.
This past week has given me a lot of feelings that I really never thought much about before. One is how important it is for husband and wife to support each other when difficult things happen. The other is that both Lynn and I have really felt the care coming from so many different directions. Some of you we know personally, and some of you I probably couldn’t even call by name, but your messages, encouragement, and especially your prayers—we have truly felt them.
Lynn’s improvement every day is something I can actually see.
The first few days she was frustrated. There was the pain from surgery, and suddenly so many simple things she used to do by herself became difficult. The road of recovery seemed very long to her. I kept telling her, “Don’t only look at how much it hurts today. Look at what you couldn’t do yesterday and what you can already do today.”
She also knows how many people are caring about her and praying for her (I read every one of your notes to her), so she knows she has to do her part too and take her rehabilitation seriously. I also keep reminding Lynn to look back at this whole experience from the beginning. There were so many things that surprised us.
From Urgent Care, to being transferred to the hospital, to all the tests and finally the decision for surgery, somehow everything seemed to connect one step at a time. We didn’t even realize until afterward that the surgeon (Dr. Matthew Gardner) who operated on her was very experienced and highly respected. Dr. Garner gave us what I believe was the best recommendation, and the surgery went extremely well.
Looking back now, it is very hard for me to believe that everything was just coincidence. I believe God was watching over us and leading us through the whole process, even when we couldn’t see it at the time.
Of course, temporarily closing the restaurant affects our income. But now I actually believe it was one of the best decisions I could have made. Money can be earned again later. But when my wife needs me, if I’m not there for her, no amount of money can make up for that later.
And maybe Lynn also discovered something new—that her normally loud, easygoing husband who sometimes drives her crazy actually has a very gentle side too! 😂
Every night before bed, I’ve been washing and taking care of her feet. At first she was embarrassed and kept saying, “No, no, you don’t have to do that.” But after a few times, apparently it felt too good to refuse anymore. 😂
To tell you the truth, I also have a little secret plan behind this. I’m trying to build up some “husband credit” ahead of time. So next time I make her mad, maybe she’ll remember how well I took care of her and forgive me a little faster. Hopefully I can get at least three free passes out of this! 😂😂 Just kidding…
Finally, I really want to thank all of our customers, friends, brothers and sisters who have been thinking about Lynn. During this past week, we have felt so much love. Your messages, encouragement and prayers have meant more to us than just saying “thank you” can express.
Her rehabilitation is not finished yet, but seeing her getting a little better every day already fills my heart with gratitude.
Thank you for caring about Lynn, and most of all, thank God for watching over us every step of the way. 🙏❤️
Your humble Chef, James