06/09/2026
There was an older man at the bowling alley yesterday afternoon wearing shoes that looked at least twenty years older than everyone else's.
Brown leather.
Scuffed toes.
His own name written inside one of them.
He was there with three friends, all around his age, and none of them appeared particularly concerned with bowling well.
One man threw a ball directly into the gutter and immediately raised both arms like he'd won a championship.
Another spent more time choosing snacks than choosing bowling balls.
The man with the old shoes was the quiet one.
Then, halfway through their second game, he rolled a strike.
For about two seconds he just stood there staring at the pins.
Then his friends absolutely lost it.
One started clapping.
Another yelled loud enough for the next lane to turn around.
The third walked over and bowed to him.
The man finally started laughing and said, “Still got it.”
Apparently the four of them used to bowl together every Thursday night when their kids were young.
Jobs changed.
People moved.
Thursday nights disappeared.
They hadn't all been in the same bowling alley together in more than fifteen years.
Someone suggested it after they ran into each other at a retirement party.
So there they were.
Older.
A little slower getting up from the plastic seats.
Much worse at bowling than they remembered.
And having a wonderful time.
Maybe friendship isn't always about staying perfectly connected.
Sometimes it's just finding your way back to the same lane.