30/09/2026
When I'm brewing for others, I'm exacting. If it doesn't come out right, I throw it and start again. No regrets.
When I'm brewing for myself and it doesn't go well? I drink it anyway. Sayang eh. It's just me, after all.
That's fine for coffee. But maybe we shouldn't treat our souls that way — caring so much about what we give and so little about what we ourselves receive.
This is what struck me about the life of the recently beatified Archbishop Fulton Sheen.
He gave enormously — decades of preaching, writing, television, radio. At his peak he traveled out of town 150 times a year and preached weekly to an audience of 30 million. Blessed Fulton Sheen evangelized at a scale very few in the Church ever reached.
But what sustained all that giving is easy to miss.
Every single day of his priesthood, without fail, he spent one hour in silence before the Blessed Sacrament. Not preparing a homily. Not planning a broadcast. Just receiving. He called it "the hour that makes my day."
He didn't earn that hour by giving enough first. It came first. Every day. For decades.
You cannot keep pouring from a cup nobody ever fills.
The greatest commandment doesn't ask us to love our neighbor instead of ourselves. It asks us to love our neighbor as ourselves — which assumes a self that already knows how to receive love, not one running on empty.
Pour an excellent cup for others. But don't forget the one that's meant for you too.
Blessed Fulton Sheen never did. That's why he had so much left to give.