01/09/2026
Our Final Hākari For Our Nan 🥹🥲
There aren’t really enough words in me tonight to express the gratitude I feel looking at this table.
So much aroha and mahi went into preparing Nan’s final hākari, from her tamariki, daughter-in-laws, mokopuna and our wider whānau. But today, when we needed to simply be together, to be present with Nan and say our final goodbyes, my Anchorage whānau stepped in and carried us.
For the past few days they have fed us, supported us and quietly taken care of whatever needed doing. And today, alongside our extended Anchorage whānau, the Blair sisters, Gail and so many others who jumped in. They took everything our whānau had prepared, got it heated, organised, plated and served, and delivered this incredible hākari for our Nan.
They didn’t just put food on a table. They gave us the gift of time. Time that I didn’t have to spend worrying about a kitchen, because I could spend it beside my whānau, with our Nan.
To the fisherman who caught the seafood for us, the factories that donated to us, to help make this all possible 🥹 To Mirren, mama Dee, Paddles, Jashana, Tania, Sonya, Margareet, aunty Jasmine, Jada, Ayesha, Gail, Justin, and every single person who stepped into that kitchen over these past few days, thank you. You have helped carry me and my whānau through one of the hardest weeks of our lives.
We will never forget it. We are Eternally grateful 🥲 Nan would have been so incredibly proud of this.
A final hākari, prepared and served with immense love For our matriarch 🤍🪽