13/12/2022
WHY AM I STILL SINGLE
PASTOR KINGSLEY OKONKWO.
As a lady, if you are still single, you are not in a relationship and you have reached the age of marriage and you don't see yourself getting married very soon, then this questions are meant for you.
* Are you really available: you have the intention or desire of getting married but are you really available, if you are still carrying hurt and pain from your past relationship, then you are not available because you still need to process your healing first before entering into another relationship.
If you are dating a married man, my dear you are not available, if you are dating someone you cannot marry, my dear you are not available.
Most times the person you wish to marry may not exist because your standards are too high, and it is very impossible for someone to meet.
Most of you want God to give you a finished product not someone that is still in the making process, if you are waiting for God to give you that, you will continue being single.
You are praying to be blessed with someone with so many good qualities but what good qualities do you have, are you the kind of person someone will like to have, is someone else praying to have someone like you.
Get rid of those unrealistic standards, standards that nobody can meet, even you yourself knows that you cannot meet such standards.
* Are you accessible: Can people even see you, please be where people can see you, you suppose to be single and searching but most of you are single but hiding. Are you someone that always wants to be alone, any man that comes close to you, you ignore them as if they are nothing.
* Are you approachable: Some of you ladies frown too much, when a man wants to talk to you but immediately he sees your face, he will forget what he wants to say. A man wants to approach you but you walk too fast as if someone is chasing you, don't you know that it takes courage for a man to approach a lady.
* Are you able: Love costs, love requires a lot of things, love requires being able, so are you able, are you socially matured, are you responsible.
* Are you amiable: Are you friendly, are you likable, are you relatable, do you talk to people, do you smile alot. It takes being likable for someone to like you, it takes being relatable for someone to relate very well with you.
God bless you!