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13/05/2026

13/05/2026

She sent me a photo of a pregnancy test kit. She said, “My worst fear has come to pass. I’m dead.” The moment I saw it, my heart skipped a beat. I called. My voice was shaky when I asked her what we were going to do. She answered, “Definitely we are not going to have it. I can’t add this to this one unless we are married. It will be too much for me.”

So I sent her money.

A week after doing it, she called one late night to tell me she was experiencing sharp pains in her abdomen and bleeding excessively. “It cuts like a knife. I think I’m dying. I have called a Bolt to come for me. I’m going to the hospital.”

I sent her money.

The next day, I went to her house to see her. She was covered in thick cloth and was lying on the sofa. She told me the doctor said there was a complication and that if she didn’t have surgery as soon as possible, it might affect her womb.

I Sent her money. Unbeknownst to me, she had plan B with her baby daddy abroad…👇🏾👇🏾

22/04/2026

The Addys of Atukpai and Ngleshie: Lineage and the Stool of Nii Ngleshie Addy

Historical details provided by the Dzasetse (Kingmaker) of the Atukpai Stool, Accra

By G. Nii Okai Addy

Introduction

To understand the transfer of Nii Ngleshie Addy from Otuopai to James Town to serve as a battle commander for the James Town Stool, it is important to clarify the lineage within the Atukpai dynasty of Nii Ngleshie Addy We (i.e. Nii Ngleshie Addy’s lineage), which dates back to the early to mid-nineteenth century.

Lineage

Nii Ngleshie Addy I (c. 1770–1840) was the first son of Nii Tetteh Tsuru I, founder and ruler of the Otuopai clan, whose stool later became the Mankralo of the Gbese Traditional Area. His mother was Naa Atswei of Asere (Lante Djan We).

Siblings of Nii Ngleshie Addy I

The paternal brothers and sisters of Nii Ngleshie Addy I were:

* Nii Addy Koblah I
* Nii Kpani Tsuru I
* Nii Kpani Koblah I
* Kpani Addy
* Naa Akuyea Addy
* Naa Kordai Addy

Kpani Addy and Naa Kordai Addy died at an early age. As a result, the “brave and steadfast” Naa Akuyea Addy became the only sister who joined Nii Ngleshie Addy I in defending the Ga people in times of war.

Descendants of Nii Ngleshie Addy I

Nii Ngleshie Addy I married as many as thirteen (13) wives from various quarters of Accra and beyond. He had many children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

His children included:

* Kwashie Odartey Addy – later Nii Ngleshie Addy II
* Ayitey Kojo Addy
* Walter Addy, Ayikwei Addy, Ayaa Addy, Adama Addy, Amu Addy
* Naa Abia Addy (children – the Moulds)
* Naa Ayeley Addy (children – the Welbecks)
* Osu Lamile Addy (children – the Browns)
* Lamile Agblodo Addy
* Awura Tawiah Addy
* Swalaba Lamile Addy (children – the Whittakers)
* Lamile Agbo Addy (children – Jimmy Wild & Rev. Lartey)
* Densua Addy (children – the Planges & Heward-Mills; Nathan Quao & others)

Acquisition of the Two Royal Stools

Nii Ngleshie Addy I possessed two royal stools. The first was created for him by his father, Nii Tetteh Tsuru I. The second was captured in battle.

It is recounted that Nii Ngleshie Addy I and his father were en route to the Battle of Katamanso in 1826 to confront the Ashanti forces—a battle that resulted in a decisive Ga victory on Monday, 7th August 1826, significantly altering the course of regional history.

While at the battlefront, news reached them through travelling Ga women that enemy forces had advanced to Berekusu (Gbele) and were moving towards Accra. In response, the youth organised themselves and sent word for Nii Ngleshie Addy I to return and reinforce the defence.

Nii Ngleshie Addy I, joined by his close ally—the son of the King of Labadi—engaged the enemy, who had taken a strategic position on a hill and were inflicting heavy casualties by rolling stones down on advancing Ga forces.

Demonstrating exceptional military skill, Nii Ngleshie Addy I outmanoeuvred the enemy and attacked from behind. He confronted and killed the Bantama-hene (a chief from Kumasi), beheading him and causing the remaining forces to surrender.

Following this victory, Nii Ngleshie Addy I and his warriors seized the Bantama-hene’s stool and other significant items, including a brass vase believed to aid escape in danger and a golden horn said to sound upon the death of a royal.

Aftermath and Legacy

Among those captured was the Bantama-hene’s horn blower, the grandfather of Nii Dodoo Donkor, later Afrimi Kpono Mantse of the Otublohum quarter of Accra. His descendants continued in that role, with Nii Dodoo Donkor serving Nii Ngleshie Addy III before later being enstooled as a chief on his maternal side.

22/04/2026

We had done the knocking and were preparing to get married when she got an opportunity to travel overseas. I was happy for her, but I was also disturbed. The distance looked scary, and the fact that the woman I loved would be away for so many years before I saw her again made me shrink.

Eventually, we agreed to have a small traditional marriage, just between the families and a few well-wishers. We had a budget and stuck strictly to it from start to the end of the traditional marriage. After that, I invested every little I had into her travel.

She carried our pregnancy abroad but a few days later she told me she had miscarried it. It didn’t sound like a natural miscarriage. When I asked questions, she told me, “The weather here doesn’t support our relationship so let’s divorce. Eii! 👇🏾👇🏾

18/04/2026

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Millicent Tokoli, Don Beck Izonderera

24/03/2026

My wife asked for a divorce. It came out of nowhere. Yes, we’ve had some troubles after five years of marriage, but I didn’t think it was enough for my wife to ask for a divorce. In shock, I asked what had come over her, and she told me she was simply sick and tired of the marriage and wanted peace.

One day, I came home and she had left with our son. When I called her phone, she didn’t answer. She rather texted a few minutes later and told me she had moved out.

For a month, I learned to live without her. I grew to accept she wasn’t coming back, so emotionally, I started the journey of healing even before the last hurdle, only for her to call one evening and say, “I’m coming back…”👇🏾👇🏾

30/09/2025

There are so many contending against this move of the spirit with posts for where people stand on Charlie Kirk and his life.

The life he lived started with his faith in Jesus and it is abundantly clear that his loss is heavens gain in more than one way.

People like this girl pictured are returning to Jesus or coming to Jesus for the first time in their lives!

While Charlie’s life is the catalyst, just like Peter in the early church, or Paul as the greatest Missionary of all time, we all know that pointing people to live for Jesus is the result!