11/12/2024
The Bicycle has lost another member of its family. This came completely out of the blue and is devastating news for us.
Lanny was there from day one, with his enormous three person appetite, relentless optimism, and genuine heartfelt support and encouragement. He was like an uncle to our kids, and a reliable brother to Julie and I. It you knew Lanny, you knew he was as complicated as he was overflowing with positivity and his bright light when it shone always obliterated any darkness that may have been previously trying to cloak him. He held no grudges, gave all he could and took only what he needed.
Not being a man of permanence, he would not want us to mourn him, but to continue to celebrate the things he cherished. Quality, the natural world, mental and physical health, athleticism, and family. If one thing defines Lanny in my mind it is how much he loved his daughter and his mother... and hockey. Nothing much else mattered, the rest was just stuff.
He and I had some good conversations about spirituality. We both believe that there has to be something more than just this. The world is so amazing, how could there possibly not be something even more amazing behind it all. I like to think that he has moved on to a new plane. One that does not require the limitations of a body. In the mean time, I am left behind him here with the time I have left, with the people I love, my stuff and a very crisp, personal memory of him shirtless on the ice in Flesherton Arena slapping pucks from the blue line and going hard into the corners with guys half his age that could have been playing pro. When I feel like even my robust enthusiasm is being challenged, I have this to draw upon to keep the faith.
Wish I could have slapped your back one more time buddy and told you how much I loved you and what a good person you were… despite that you often drove me NUTS sometimes . I’ll be having a whiskey wearing your Calgary Flames hat tonight buddy.
Appreciate people for who they are in the moment, not what you expect them all the time.
The family will receive friends at the Fawcett Funeral Home Flesherton on Friday, November 15 from 1:00pm until 3:00pm.