10/03/2026
You are going to lose someone you love.
When you do, I hope you remember this.
There’s a distance where a lighthouse can’t reach you: 37 miles. Past that line, no one can see you. But right on the edge, you can still see the light.
Grief will carry you out to sea.
Hope is the decision to keep looking for the shore,
in a prayer whispered into the night,
in the small glimmers that remind you struggle isn’t all there is.
My new essay, Whom Shall I Fear, is about grief and the hope in spite of it inspired by my time exploring artist Amy Friend’s exhibit: Leave a Light on for Me at RiverBrink Art Museum - catch it before it leaves October 17th.🕯️
Read it on Substack. Link in bio.
Send this to someone who’s lost at sea right now.